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Futility Is A State To Avoid - Or Get Out Of Quick

Futility.

What is the point of having a page about that?

Would that not be a useless waste of time?

But in the same way we need to appreciate black to understand white better.

To feel the wind in our faces and the sun warming our bodies. To feel the rain and see drifting snow. And more to appreciate the nature and the seasons.

How can we understand efficiency, effective and satisfying without also knowing uselessness and its effect on us?

Futility. Hmmmmmmmm?

But how often do we have to sample something to find its nature? How often to we have to do something to realize this is not for us?

How often do we have to partake of the negative to not want it any more? To have found its nature and rejected it?

Or is by partaking of the negative and the fruitless - too many times - we find ourselves caught in its vortex? Unable to escape.

Has its nature become ours? Are we able to free ourselves?

Do we realize that we need to free ourselves from its clutches? Or are we too far gone?

Do they have power of their own, or are we feeding them? Are we creating our own downfall?

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Of course this is the dark side of things. Not many things perhaps have this power to take us over or to cling on and not let go.

But we do need to be careful in what we do. In what we place our faith. In what we trust.

Futility. All is not always as it seems.

At times like these words can be very powerful - healing, soothing, comforting, relaxing . . .

The power of words . . .

If we let them filter through and allow the words their power to move and rejuvenate.

Let them gently and slowly impact on our lives as we read - and in the future when we recall their meaning for us.

I hope this futility page will do this and more. I hope these futility examples will help to express life in an insightful, penetrating but easy to read manner. And help us to question the lives we lead and the manner in which we live them.


I can see the futility of it all
to avoid life's dance or forestall
what is to come it may me maul
can I my life wrap up in mothball

For things seem so hard you know
my friends try to help me, but my ego
gets in the way and off they go
to find pastures new amidst life's glow

And I am left alone at the last
I wish it were different but time is so fast
approaching and my life I have bypassed
looking at others shows me the contrast

They are happy and seem carefree
I am sulking and often angry
they are content, I am just empty
why is life for me so beastly

Is it something I have done
to explain why people leave me alone
or is it in my brain or mind
'tis true I have this whirlpool of a daily grind

And nothing ever seems to get through
to me, though others happiness does not seem new
I just wish some would wash off on me
if only I could feel that I was free


Why am I so ineffective
of situations I just seem captive
and the hurdles they appear so massive
I wish I was not so passive

And could become more efficient
events, actions, just seem me to confront
with difficult problems, solutions are errant
why is success always a distant entrant

In my life, I wish it were not so
maybe I should turn off my pilot auto
and take a bigger part in life and not forego
life's wonders, pleasures, joys, me they have given a big heave-ho


Life is so fruitless
I am no actress
upon what basis
is my life this blackness

Each day makes me breathless
I need get on with my business
of finding depth, joy and calmness
in each day, and life's rich canvass

And then I might see through the dimness
of my making and with others discuss
how they seem so real and fearless
with myself I need show tenacity and frankness


Why do I feel so empty
what makes me angry
I look around blankly
why is life so blustery

I need find life's rich bounty
go within and see more cheery
experience and tackle life briskly
find life's contentment, but I'd do with candy


I am so vain
should I just from life abstain
I lose myself in life's chicane
and feel for all such sheer disdain

I need snap out of this
negative thoughts need to dismiss
see that much is amiss
surrender, accept, feel life's bliss


This is oh so trivial
it should be central
I would settle for cordial
and avoid the dreadful

Life seems to dwindle
and seems so fickle
is this why I do fumble
life is real and no gamble

Happy with my lot and gentle
ever hopeful and also helpful
but which is me in this jumble
is my life an island or just the jungle

All best,
Martin


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