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Be Flexible In Life And What You Do - And Reap The Rewards

Being flexible is a great way to be. This is not to say that we always say yes, but that we are open to new opportunities and new situations.

You are then able to take advantage of the opportunities that life throws your way. Be they the mainstream of just the byways of life.

Don't be ever yielding, but be willing to be elastic and stretch. Be able to adjust to circumstance, just like the tall spruce tree bends in the wind, learn to bend and adapt to the winds of change in your life.

Be accommodating without being over yielding. Adjust your stance when required and in the light of new information, wisdom or experience. (S)he who does not have an adaptable stance in life will not recover from troubled waters when they appear, as they inevitably do from time to time.

Be amenable but responsive, variable but gentle in your affairs. Be relaxed, what is there really to worry about - though we make a good go at it from time to time, don't we?

Be open and flexible to change. Be aware of its force and influence but don't be afraid. Trust in yourself and believe that you can handle what life throws at you.

Understand that life has much in store for all of us in our time here on Earth. But at times things can get a bit too much. At times we can question and wonder. We think about what is really happening in our life.

At times you will be tested. And you will question and wonder. And start thinking about what is really happening in our life. Am I doing the right thing and in the right way? Or . . .?

The questioning can continue. What you are doing. What you are involved in. What direction your life is going in. At times like these words can be very powerful - healing, soothing, comforting, relaxing . . .

The power of words . . .

As we read we can let the words gently flow over us.

We can let ourselves open to the thoughts and their meanings, the ideas and their origin, the phrases and the understandings that they have ready for us.

I hope this flexible page will do this and more. I hope this example will help to express life in an insightful, penetrating but easy to read manner. And help us to question the lives we lead and the manner in which we live them.


What an advantage it is to be flexible
but not so we bend over and break
we want all our targets and aims to tackle
but not so we end up with a headache

We would like to remain ever cheerful
but so that we retain our sense of fun and make
the right decisions and be productive and fruitful
to be adaptable and not any change have to forsake

We want to be seen as more than capable
and for this we need learn from any mistake
so that we forge ahead and with life wrestle
and grow and develop so the right decisions we can then make


How adaptable are we to change
or do we find it quite strange
difficult to come to terms with
easy to handle being a real myth
why is it hard to be flexible
adjusting our life and being responsible

for what we do and how we are
do we not that much really care
or is it a case of too much stress
situations and circumstances just bring us distress
and all along we just need to relax
fall back on first principles and not tax

ourselves trying to solve life's huge equation
when all along we can have our own version
of life in our hands and our own time
the answer is often most sublime
be confident in our thoughts and actions
have faith in life and its options

that can come our way if we observe
find our heart within and we'll have the life we really deserve


Do we yield at the first hurdle
is it really that big an obstacle
can we traverse it or end up going round
march forward but don't take the high ground
depend on your confidence and motivation
to make the most of this and any action


Are we open to new developments
and able to make the most our best moments
by using our principles and discretion
our values can certainly brighten

The opportunities that life seems to give
us each day to experience and live
life to the full and with real zest
if we're flexible we'll remain unstressed

And be able to take on board
each option and assess the benefit and reward
of doing things that way or this
we don't want anything to miss

Out and feel at all abandoned
by our action we have our life questioned
when really we should take some things on faith
are we real, spirit or wraith

When all the time we can feel at home
when change enters our life and does come
before us for us to decide yay or nay
relax, be flexible, your future comes to you - today


What do I lose by being inflexible
do I lose a bit of myself
for I should be confident and adaptable
to make the most of life itself
for otherwise I might just live a lie
and who wants to end up so anti
the opportunities that life puts your way
not giving them a chance might well spoil this or any day

All best,
Martin


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