Be Flexible In Life And What You Do - And Reap The Rewards
Being flexible is a great way to be. This is not to say that we always say yes, but that we are open to new opportunities and new situations. You are then able to take advantage of the opportunities that life throws your way. Be they the mainstream of just the byways of life. Don't be ever yielding, but be willing to be elastic and stretch. Be able to adjust to circumstance, just like the tall spruce tree bends in the wind, learn to bend and adapt to the winds of change in your life. Be accommodating without being over yielding. Adjust your stance when required and in the light of new information, wisdom or experience. (S)he who does not have an adaptable stance in life will not recover from troubled waters when they appear, as they inevitably do from time to time. Be amenable but responsive, variable but gentle in your affairs. Be relaxed, what is there really to worry about - though we make a good go at it from time to time, don't we? Be open and flexible to change. Be aware of its force and influence but don't be afraid. Trust in yourself and believe that you can handle what life throws at you. Understand that life has much in store for all of us in our time here on Earth. But at times things can get a bit too much. At times we can question and wonder. We think about what is really happening in our life. At times you will be tested. And you will question and wonder. And start thinking about what is really happening in our life. Am I doing the right thing and in the right way? Or . . .? The questioning can continue. What you are doing. What you are involved in. What direction your life is going in. At times like these words can be very powerful - healing, soothing, comforting, relaxing . . . The power of words . . . As we read we can let the words gently flow over us. We can let ourselves open to the thoughts and their meanings, the ideas and their origin, the phrases and the understandings that they have ready for us. I hope this flexible page will do this and more. I hope this example will help to express life in an insightful, penetrating but easy to read manner. And help us to question the lives we lead and the manner in which we live them. What an advantage it is to be flexible but not so we bend over and break we want all our targets and aims to tackle but not so we end up with a headache We would like to remain ever cheerful but so that we retain our sense of fun and make the right decisions and be productive and fruitful to be adaptable and not any change have to forsake We want to be seen as more than capable and for this we need learn from any mistake so that we forge ahead and with life wrestle and grow and develop so the right decisions we can then make How adaptable are we to change or do we find it quite strange difficult to come to terms with easy to handle being a real myth why is it hard to be flexible adjusting our life and being responsible for what we do and how we are do we not that much really care or is it a case of too much stress situations and circumstances just bring us distress and all along we just need to relax fall back on first principles and not tax ourselves trying to solve life's huge equation when all along we can have our own version of life in our hands and our own time the answer is often most sublime be confident in our thoughts and actions have faith in life and its options that can come our way if we observe find our heart within and we'll have the life we really deserve Do we yield at the first hurdle is it really that big an obstacle can we traverse it or end up going round march forward but don't take the high ground depend on your confidence and motivation to make the most of this and any action Are we open to new developments and able to make the most our best moments by using our principles and discretion our values can certainly brighten The opportunities that life seems to give us each day to experience and live life to the full and with real zest if we're flexible we'll remain unstressed And be able to take on board each option and assess the benefit and reward of doing things that way or this we don't want anything to miss Out and feel at all abandoned by our action we have our life questioned when really we should take some things on faith are we real, spirit or wraith When all the time we can feel at home when change enters our life and does come before us for us to decide yay or nay relax, be flexible, your future comes to you - today What do I lose by being inflexible do I lose a bit of myself for I should be confident and adaptable to make the most of life itself for otherwise I might just live a lie and who wants to end up so anti the opportunities that life puts your way not giving them a chance might well spoil this or any day All best, Martin
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